‘Whenever two people meet there are really six people present. There is each man as he sees himself, each man as the other person sees him, and each man as he really is’ William James.
Self esteem is a part of our image it’s also about how we look and feel about ourselves. You are motivated and confident if you have the ‘feel good about oneself’ attitude. To identify and build the positive factors in ourselves, we have to understand our strengths. The way you look and carry your self is a part of that confidence.
Make time to dress makeup and style your hair, everywhere you go, every time you meet people. Make an effort to match your accessories, and shoes. It’s when you look into the mirror and have a good opinion about yourself that others will too! This certainly boosts your self confidence.
If you do have trouble judging your styles and colors, you may approach a consultant, but eventually you will need to handle that yourself. It’s after all your requirements.
It’s not when you wear the expensive labels, but how well you can wear your inexpensive clothes. It’s definitely not about the latest trends, but wearing anything with poise. It’s not how much makeup you apply, but how little and still able to get the best results. It’s not about loud and clear, but confident and focused.
Try to flirt with yourself, emanate the power you posses, walk with confidence, look into the eye when you talk, stand on both feet, sturdy up your tone and smile whenever you can, but not excessively. Carry a positive attitude, not an arrogant one. Converse with knowledge, be attentive and informed.
-Sangeeta Vidyasagar
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